Entry 3

Friends are a special thing to have, so special that you never want to lose one. Especially if it's a person you enjoy being with the most and never wish to harm or take for granted.

I have so many friends on Antilia, that they make this grumpy tall kitty able to smile and feel welcomed (and keep me well fed of fish too). That being said, I never wish to lose any friendships in that community. You all mean a lot to me and the community of Antilia.

However, if it does become the point that we can no longer be friends, please stay with the community for your other friends. They'll miss you, wonder where you went, and why you left. If you wish to stay in contact with them, let them know before you decide to leave, give them a chance to stay connected with you. Friends are there to care about you when the time comes. Try to remember the good times you had with your ex-friends too.

People change, but you shouldn't think ill will on them either. Eventually and possibly, you and your ex-friend may remember each other in the future and wish to reconnect with one another, hope to reunite the friendship again. May cross paths again.

I treasure every friendship I have, and I never wish to lose any of them.

I have made friends in the past, but eventually lost contact with them. Doesn't mean we're no longer friends though. People come and go, that's the way of life, unfortunately.

I have lost friends before though, sometimes abruptly and with no explanation either (mix of both too). It's not a very good feel. However, the pain is less if they wish you luck in life and to not take it too hard. That shows they care about you, but can't continue the friendship anymore. Sounds a bit contradicting, I know, but in a way makes sense. Bright side is, they possibly won't think of ill will thoughts about you, and you shouldn't either. You both should remember only the good times, and learn of why it felt apart for better friendships in the future.

Life is a cruel mistress, but we all go through it together.

Hope everyone had a good Valentine's day. Whether it was with a friend, spouse, mate, family, whoever. If you ended up being alone on Valentine's day, or in some case also sick, don't give up hope just yet. You'll eventually find someone. Don't think you're the only one alone on Valentine's day.